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How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship, and CommunityBy Mia Birdsong Paperback An Invitation to Community and Models for Connection After almost every presentation activist and writer Mia Birdsong gives to executives, think tanks, and policy makers, one of those leaders quietly confesses how much they long for the profound community she describes. They have family, friends, and colleagues, yet they still feel like they're standing alone. They're "winning" at the American Dream, but they're lonely,
By Mia Birdsong
Paperback
An Invitation to Community and Models for Connection
After almost every presentation activist and writer Mia Birdsong gives to executives, think tanks, and policy makers, one of those leaders quietly confesses how much they long for the profound community she describes. They have family, friends, and colleagues, yet they still feel like they're standing alone. They're "winning" at the American Dream, but they're lonely, disconnected, and unsatisfied.
After almost every presentation activist and writer Mia Birdsong gives to executives, think tanks, and policy makers, one of those leaders quietly confesses how much they long for the profound community she describes. They have family, friends, and colleagues, yet they still feel like they're standing alone. They're "winning" at the American Dream, but they're lonely, disconnected, and unsatisfied.
It seems counterintuitive that living the "good life"--the well-paying job, the nuclear family, the upward mobility--can make us feel isolated and unhappy. But in a divided America, where only a quarter of us know our neighbors and everyone is either a winner or a loser, we've forgotten the key element that helped us make progress in the first place: community. In this provocative, groundbreaking work, Mia Birdsong shows that what separates us isn't only the ever-present injustices built around race, class, gender, values, and beliefs, but also our denial of our interdependence and need for belonging. In response to the fear and discomfort we feel, we've built walls, and instead of leaning on each other, we find ourselves leaning on concrete.
Through research, interviews, and stories of lived experience, How We Show Up returns us to our inherent connectedness where we find strength, safety, and support in vulnerability and generosity, in asking for help, and in being accountable. Showing up--literally and figuratively--points us toward the promise of our collective vitality and leads us to the liberated well-being we all want.
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Note: there are no English instructions.
I wanted this cleaning agent to disperse throughout the nooks and crannies of the engine, so about ten minutes before arriving at the mechanic's shop for my oil change appointment, I pulled the car over and poured this into the engine, then drove it the rest of the way there.
The mechanic reported lots of sludge drained out with the oil. The engine seems to perform and sound better, as if it's not working as hard.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 15, 2026
★★★★★ 4
Buen producto
Buen producto, limpia perfectamente el motor interno y se libera la suciedad en el cambio de aceite. no use todo el contenido, creo que es bueno usarlo en 2 cambios de aceite para una mayor eficiencia.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 29, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Great will use it over and over again
I will use this in every car I own from now. Cleaned it real well did exactly what it said so and my truck runs a lot better definitely can tell the difference.. it was work the extra oil and work. The bottle I bought came with instructions in English, which made it easy for me. The quality of it is light brake cleaner, but meant for engines and it ran great very easy to use this pour in.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 19, 2025
★★★★★ 5
Does its job.
Always a go to before oil changes. Helps remove some extra sludge/deposits. DO NOT DRIVE OR REV THE VEHICLE WHEN USNG THE PRODUCT, only idle for 10-15 min. Ive seen reviews where people drove with it potentially ruining the engine.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 26, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Calidad de limpieza al motor
Excelente producto, lo llevo usándolo un buen tiempo, en cada cambio de aceite, limpia bien por dentro del motor. Es fácil usarlo, hecharlo donde se llena el aceite del motor, y enciende el motor espere 10 minutos, y apague el motor, y vuelve a esperar 25 o 30 minutos para que se enfríe el motor, ya cumplido lo 25 o 30 minutos sacar el aceite viejo del motor. Listo, producto muy recomendable. Excelente funcionamiento, chevy silverado 2004
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Reviewed in the United States on March 15, 2026
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